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By Hampshire EMTAS Bilingual Assistant Eva Molea
In Diary on an EAL Mum, Eva
Molea shares the ups and downs of her experience bringing up her daughter,
Alice, in the UK. In this instalment, Eva supports Alice with her GCSE option
choices.

Here we go
again! Alice is finally in Year 9 and, after whizzing through Year 7 and Year 8
with full colours and a School Council Cup for receiving more than 500
achievement points in Year 8 (clever cookie!), our trepidatious wait has
finally ended: she will finally choose her GCSE subjects!
As many of you
might know already from my previous blogs, in our family we like to
investigate, plan, think ahead, be ready… in other words: to stress
unnecessarily. Taking GCSE options is throwing open a door on the
uncertainty of “what’s next”. Which college? What are the requirements? Which
university? Where will our precious daughter move to pursue her career? Just
helping you read between the lines, this last question means: where are we
relocating to be close to Alice and support her? Ah, the dramas of an Italian
mum and dad!
Anyway, invitations
to the GCSE guided choices evening had been gratefully received and calendars
dutifully marked. Nothing could stop US from being there early and take the
necessary time to explore ALL of Alice’s interests.
While Alice was
taking taster sessions in school and trying to find out if she really liked
what she thought she would like, we (read the royal “We”) started doing the
groundwork by searching the Internet for information.
First stop,
Alice’s school website. Here we found a whole section solely dedicated to GCSE
options with lovely short videos made by the teachers to explain what each
course entailed, what the assessment would look like, and which would be the
target students for said course. There was also a booklet with all the
information, to be perused at one’s own leisure. Very interesting bedtime
reading… I found the videos very informative and a great way for me, as a
parent coming from a different education system, to discover more about the
curriculum and to start forming an idea of which subjects would most suit Alice
(or maybe which subject I wished suited Alice...).
The website and
the booklet explained clearly which were the core subjects, the extended core,
and the other options, and how to combine all these. It also stressed the
importance for the students to take their decisions according to their personal
interests, skills and future career ambitions rather than being in class with
their friends.
Once I found
out which were the exam boards for each subject, I quickly examined some past
papers to find out what they looked like and to judge which options Alice might
enjoy the most. I had no clue.
I then searched
BBC
Bitesize to see how the
GCSE section was organised and discovered that
contents had been divided according to exam boards, offering for each of them
different topics or perspectives. I thought this would be a good starting point
because students could look at the content of other boards as well and gain
more information, potentially…
Before the big
event, we had virtual parents evening, where in 5-minute slots I was given as
much information as possible about my daughter’s achievement and progress. All
teachers told me that Alice had an outstanding attitude for learning and that
she was always engaged and participative in class and, most importantly, very
polite and well behaved. This was a very proud-mummy moment. ? Many of them hoped that Alice would
take their subject, which meant that she had lots of options (great!), but this
didn’t make the process any easier (umpf!).
On the GCSE
options evening, I left home with a very nervous Alice. She was worried that we
might not have enough time to visit all the subjects that she was interested in
(Spanish, History, Dance, Drama, Food Tech, Graphics, Photography, and all the
mandatory ones). She was also concerned about the exam requirements for each
subject, because she doesn’t enjoy tests one bit… can’t really blame her!
On a chilly and
clear spring evening, we got to school before the event started and attended
the Deputy Head Teacher’s opening speech. It was a very clear presentation, addressed
to the students. It was explained to them that, besides the mandatory GCSEs
(English Language, English Literature, Maths, Sciences, and RS*), one subject
among History, Geography or MFL was to be picked as extended core. There were two
more options to be taken from the extended core and/or all the other subjects
offered by the school. Heritage Language GCSEs through the
EMTAS service were also
encouraged. We were very grateful for this opportunity because it would help
Alice keep her home language up to the mark and have her skills recognised.
After the
speech, we set on our discovery journey, going from room to room to find out
about the different subjects. Many teachers had gone through the effort of
creating very captivating and informative displays and were providing detailed
information about the curriculum and the exam, as well as answering the
questions from apprehensive parents (present!) and undecided students.
I soon realised
that we were being submerged by loads of information, but none was helping
Alice to take any decision. All subjects seemed very appealing so I changed
strategy and started asking all teachers just two questions: 1. Why would their
subject be a good choice? and 2. Why, of all the children in their year, should
Alice take it?
Some teachers stressed
the academic appeal of their subjects, others praised Alice’s attitude and
abilities, but the selling point for her was being very capable and competent
in a subject. This was such a confidence booster for her! Another very good
selling point for her was the (limited) amount of writing that the subject
required.?
By the end of
the evening, we came home with some clearer ideas, but still with a lot of
question marks. We decided to leave any decisions to the Easter holidays, as we
would have more time to consider and discuss each individual subject. During
the school break we sat at a table, with Dad as well, and we discussed pros and
cons of each subject. Only five made it to the next round: Spanish, History,
Dance, Drama and Food Tech.
For Alice,
Spanish was non-negotiable, and this was her extended core subject. She had to
pick two more, and would have picked Dance and Drama, which would have helped with
her career as “Famous Hollywood Actress” (reach for the stars, girl!), but Dad
had different ideas. The pragmatism of the engineer, and the insider knowledge
of university selection criteria, made him push for a more academic subject
that would unlock other doors, should the long and winding road to Hollywood
lose its sparkle.
It took a lot
of persuasion, and the promise to pay for a performing arts academy, to get
Alice to choose History over Drama. Her decision taken, we filled in the form –
which actually included two back-up options, Drama and Food Tech – and hit the
“Send” button.
When I
questioned Alice about the whole process and whether she had enjoyed it, it
came out that she had mixed feelings: she enjoyed the taster sessions in school
because they cleared some doubts; she felt the pressure of having to choose and
would have welcome more tailored guidance from the school; and she rejoiced
when we sent the form because she didn’t have to worry about it anymore and could
get back to her normal activities. Everything was in the school’s hands now,
and Alice was confident that they would have at heart her best interest when
confirming the options.
From my
perspective, I was left wondering why schools handle GCSE options in different
ways? Surely the expectation was that all children came out of school with the
same amount of knowledge and the same mandatory subjects, right? Why did some
schools take options in Year 8 and others in Year 9? Once you filled in the
form, were your options set in stone?
The only thing
left to do now was sit and wait, which required a lot of patience and poor
Alice had not realised that I would be asking her every day “Have your options
been confirmed yet?”.
PS: We are in a
very lucky position because, despite the education experience in the UK being
new to us, our understanding of the English language is good. But not all
families are in the same position, in particular the ones that have recently
moved to the UK. Here are some ideas that might help make their sailing through
secondary school smoother:
- check whether
or not parents require an interpreter to discuss their child's progress at
parent evenings
- translate
invitation letters using translation tools (eg see Review tab in Word) and
follow up by a text message. Consider also using the EMTAS language phonelines
- talk about
processes for GCSE options in clear terms. Avoid acronyms and write down
important points for families to take home
- ensure your
website includes a facility for parents to translate information in their own
language. Demonstrate how this works
- have tablets
available at options evenings and offer the use of Google Lens for parents to
access information on displays
- provide
information about Heritage Language GCSEs. Source past papers and add these to
the Languages Department's display
- Have KS4
Young Interpreters available to welcome parents at options evenings, give tours
and talk about their subjects - not to discuss other pupils' progress
- Use the
Immersive Reader and Read Aloud facility on websites such as BBC Bitesize to
translate and listen to content relating to GCSE options in parents' languages.
Videos hosted on YouTube can also be subtitled in different languages.
*Alice does not enjoy RS, she would rather not go to school when she has that lesson. In advance of the GCSE guided choices, I tried to sweet talk the school to make the subject optional, but I was not persuasive enough.
[ Modified: Monday, 19 June 2023, 9:20 AM ]